Saturday, October 18, 2008

409: a little relief at the pumps?

hey y'all.

i just saw this headline:

Gas prices fall below $3


wow.

just when some folk are so broke that they've traded in their cars for bikes and foot power, it sounds like we can stand up straight and pull up our panties.

i guess W. and his cronies have had enough.

read the full article here.

408: maya angelou spoke to me

hey y'all.

i dreamed about Maya Angelou during my sleeping hours. she and i (along with some other folk) were at the rehearsal for a musical event. the stars were friends of ours.

i sat in the row behind Ms. Angelou and (i believe) Alfre Woodard. Ms. Angelou was engaged in a conversation with a young woman. nosey me heard the young woman make a most glaring grammatical error, one that i hear colored folk make all the time.

she said, "... and we was..."

Ms. Angelou looked around in horror. seeing me, she motioned me forward and lamented in a whisper how our young folk just aren't making the grade when it comes to speaking correct english.

i could only nod in agreement while silently being thankful that baby bliss is not among that number.

it also made me sad because i do know people who speak like that. adults...

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Friday, October 10, 2008

407: dehydration + heating pad + caffeine + heat = heat exhaustion/heat stroke

hey y'all.

this is a health alert but do not read while you're eating or if you have a weak stomach triggered by certain words or imagery.

last weekend, i suffered a heat-related mishap. even now i'm not sure if it was the last stages of heat exhaustion or the initial stages of heat stroke.

i do know that i thought i was going to die and i wanted to die at home, not in the E.R. while running up a bill of tens of thousands.

here's what happened:

my back had been bothering me most of last week. friday evening, i decided to try the heating pad. it felt so good that i kept it on my back for hours, turning it on and off several times during that period.

my back felt a lot better saturday morning but i decided to use the heating pad again, in hopes of having a pain-free day.

late saturday morning, mr. bliss and i went out to run an errand. we decided to eat while we were out.

as we sat on a sunny patio awaiting our food, i sipped a glass of iced tea. (caffeine)

after 20 minutes of waiting, i began to feel nauseated. thinking i was feeling hypoglycemic, i felt it would pass when i got my food. (and if i'd been able to think clearly, i would have known that the tea should have helped with low blood sugar.)

well, the food didn't come and the nausea didn't subside. i told mr. bliss how i was feeling and that we needed to leave. (confusion? intuition? either way i had just been thinking that i needed to eat to overcome the nausea.)

by the time we got halfway to the car, i was doubled over. my body felt as if it were being bombarded. i was nauseated, had a headache, and i was salivating profusely as if vomiting was eminent.

by the time i was seated in the car, waves of nausea were engulfing me, my heart had begun racing, i felt like i was hyperventilating, and my bra felt like it was cutting off my circulation.

then i began to cry uncontrollably.

mr. bliss kept asking me what was wrong but i couldn't tell him.

i didn't know. i just knew i felt wrong and i wanted to go home.

i felt like my nervous system was totally out of wack.

mr. bliss asked if i wanted to go to the hospital (we were across the street from it and had to pass right by it to get home.)

no, i wanted to get home in a hurry.

when we arrived i was still crying. as he helped me up the steps, mr. bliss said, "i think you're having a heat stroke!"

of course i thought he was crazy. how could i have be having a heat stroke? i hadn't been overexerting myself in the heat, just sitting in the sun sipping my sweet tea.

the other factors (heating pad, dehydration, sun, caffeine) were not in my thoughts.

i made it to the bathroom sink, turned on the tap, then began rinsing my mouth and face. (i was still crying.)

mr. bliss put a cold compress on my neck and baby bliss made an ice pack for my head.

they put me to bed and nursed me for hours.

for several hours i drank small bits of water. eventually i ate a bowl of miso soup. and when i felt better, i did some research.

i must have gone to dozens of websites and they were about evenly divided on the symptoms of heat exhaustion vs. heat stroke.

which is why i'm not sure what really happened to me.

what i do know is that i didn't have any warning signs like profuse sweating that stopped or cramping.

so now i am on hyper alert. i've been drinking as much water as i can remember to, avoiding the heating pad (thankfully i don't need it), and making sure i don't feel too warm. because i read that once a person has that type of experience, it's likely to happen again.

don't know if that's true or not but i don't want to be a test case.

thank you God for mr. bliss. if it had been baby bliss and i out alone, i probably would not be here to tell this tale.

so this is a reminder y'all: please drink your water to help prevent something like this from happening to you.

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406: sad news re bus stop babies

hey y'all.

we heard a horrible story the other day on the news.

a 12-year-old girl was waiting for her school bus when she was dragged into the bushes and raped by a 28-year-old man who had a long history with the justice system.

she wasn't as young as the children i talked about in my previous post but we know a sexual assault is traumatic at any age.

thank you God for the people who were able to help her.

everyone, please keep this young girl and her family in your prayers.


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405: a man and his music...

hey y'all. 

 one day i woke up and wanted to see one of my favorite musicians performing. so i logged onto youtube and lo and behold, some wise and wonderful woman had left a love note for me in the comments module: his tickets go on sale today at 10 a.m. amazingly, "today" was the same day i just happened to be checking out his video. hallelujah! then i realized it was mid-afternoon and i panicked. his tickets have been known to sell out in the first two hours. but i prayed, crossed my fingers/legs/heart, and scooted over to ticketmaster dot com. i could have shouted to the heavens when i was able to find a ticket for a verycloseseat. i wanted to take baby bliss because she grew up on his music and she's already enjoyed two of his concerts with me. but two seats together were toofarintheback and costly as well. so i went back to the one-ticket search and my seat was still there. i bought the ticket. once upon a time, i listened to one of his CDs every single day for three (3) years. now i listen to his music most of the time but it's been every day for the past month or so. he hasn't given a concert in soooooo long and i've got a jones to see him live. yes, one ticket was kinda 'spensive but i've been a frugally good wife and mama:
  1. 95-99% of our non-grocery shopping is done at the thrift store and walmart.
  2. i haven't paid to have my hair done in 3 years. (and 3 years ago i only went one time.)
  3. i get a pedicure once a year on average; manicures are less frequent.
  4. i drive a hybrid, do my best to combine trips, and don't have to leave home to work so i save on gas.
  5. there's a lot more i do to save more and spend less money but the rest would be too long and boring to type.
baby bliss was tear-y when she heard she wasn't going. oh well. she's had more vacations this year than any child i know. not intentionally. it just turned out that way. still. baby bliss should be thankful. (any way, he already kinda knows her since she was allowed on stage at the two concerts i took her to. i'm gonna take him a photo of her so he can see how big she's gotten since the last time he saw her.) this will be a Very Special Event for me and i'm planning everything very carefully. i'm making* my dress, making two sets of jewelry (so i'll have options), and hoping to crochet a shoulder wrap to wear over my dress. 

several hours ago, mr. bliss helped me find a sexycute pair of comfie sandals at the outlet mall. soon as i have time (probably this weekend), i'm gonna take some photos and post so y'all can see my stuff. 

* making = wrapping and tying 1 1/2 yard of stretchy black lace into a form-fitting dress. lol 

Thursday, October 9, 2008

404: miracles do happen

hey y'all.

once upon a time, we noticed that baby bliss was walking on her tiptoes.

it didn't seem to be a problem until one day i noticed that she couldn't put her heels on the ground without pain in her achilles tendon. and she couldn't stand up completely straight without her back hurting.

so we slogged through physical therapy, orthopaedic docs, family docs and more. finally we were led to a wonderful doctor who understood the seriousness of the situation.

she understood the situation, something i don't think any of the others did. baby bliss had two visits with our wonderful new doc.

today baby bliss is pain-free and walking with her heels on the ground, no problems.

i am thankful.

amen.


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403: the things we do for love

hey y'all.

my mama n'em are here.

again.

they blew in tuesday. my stepdad is staying for a few days; my mama is leaving tomorrow with baby bliss. they're headed for a weekend excursion at a beautiful beach locale.

too bad they're expecting rain all weekend.

oh well. at least my mama is leaving.

cuz i do declare, she's been getting on my last nerve since she's been here. i know she's not trying to but it's just how she is, being drama queen extraordinaire and all.

i was asked to accompany them on holiday but i declined. i like restful vacations and the last one i took with my mama was anything but.

um, wait. it wasn't so bad. but months after we got back, i began hearing about "all the food" i ate while on vacation.

mama say what?!

the meals were all smorgasbord style but only i ate one plate per meal and not one was piled high or overflowing the sides.

okay, so i ate a few desserts with every dinner. but they were all displayed in bite-sized bits so i grabbed one each of a few i wanted to try.

what -- pray, tell -- is so bad about that?

i know my mama is the planet's most righteous-eating vegetarian/sometime vegan/sometime raw foodist. but although we were visiting a non-u.s. territory, i am an american and i reserve the right to choose my own foodstuffs.

so there granny bliss!

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 Happy Friday everyone. I hope you are all healthy and safe. As I said in my previous post, there have been a number of changes chez Bliss. ...